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The quarter century life crisis

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

As of Late...

I am still obsessed with Facebook. I reload it almost as many times as my Gmail, and that is saying a lot. Facebook alerts go right to my free blogger phone now so I need to remember to put it on vibrate before I go to bed because there is a certain fella in London who likes to message me in the morning from work, GMT time.

After the Jump: Some Summer Pictures


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I never posted this. I never posted this because I never wrote anything to go along with it. Terrible.

Ok, what to say about After the Jump Fest? It was amazing, it was jaw-dropping, I learned what not to do, I learned who I could lean on, I learned I didn't need to lean on anyone, I was scared by an aging British musician, I was dumbfounded by the generosity of some kids from Syracuse and it was one of the most difficult things I've ever done.



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Matt, Jen, Pat and Mike
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Monday, August 27, 2007

After After the Jump

Apologies to all the people who logged in yesterday and today and saw no wrap up post about After the Jump. I have been in full chill out mode. Sitting in my pjs all day, watching movies and enjoying a libation in the evening. Oh, and of course answering about 100 emails. The work didn't exactly die down now that the festival is over. Today I answered an interview from the Brooklyn Courier, dealt with stolen t-shirts, missing sponsorship money and still unsigned contracts. Not to mention, drafted a nasty email to an agent (but was talked down by my more level headed friend and manager Jed). Two words people: oy vey.

I didn't get a chance to take any pictures Saturday, was too busy sweating, running around and giving people orders. My photographer friends however took loads of great shots. Go check out the new After the Jump Flickr site Laura set up for us: http://www.flickr.com/groups/afterthejump

More later. Right now I just want to lie down and watch Peter Pan.

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Thursday, August 23, 2007

Take Deep, Cleansing Breaths


This is happening Saturday. SATURDAY. I honestly can't fathom it. On a good day, I'll work 12 hours on the fest and soon it will be all over... that is until we begin prep for CMJ.

This past week, I have been so high strung about it all that even when I go to bed at 2, 3, 4 in the morning, if anything wakes me, be it only a few hours after I've hit the hay, I am up. I've averaged 5 hours a night and today, I write this at 5:30am. I've been up for a solid hour and a half after an early morning facebook alert to my phone woke me. I went to bed at 2am. I am hoping the few gulps of sake I drank and the extra emails I just wrote will lull me back to sleep shortly.

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Saturday, August 18, 2007

What You Could Do Is...

Well, that was a first.

Today I took off my top in front of a strange young woman in a dressing room. And no, this is not the beginning of a letter the Penthouse.

This afternoon, I met visiting Shira at a lingerie store on the Upper East Side that specialises in bras for those, using my grandmother's term, "blessed." It was the first time I had ever been properly fitted and it was a very intimate experience with somebody whose name I didn't even know. I didn't even really need to be fitted though, I walked into the store and the woman helping Shira took one look at me and said "34 FF." She was dead on. "Damn" said Shira, "you are like the the guy at the carnival that guesses your weight."

After we left the store, with my dignity a little less intact, Shira and I headed to a fabric store and then the Whitney. The 60's Love exhibit was mildly interesting but mostly contained copies of images you've already seen. We then made our way back up to the 80's and met Happy at Dean and Deluca. We laughed for an hour and discussed men, chess, and cup-size before Happy had to depart for Jersey and us The Metropolitan Museum, Shira wanted to see their special exhibit before close. The night ended with a pitcher of sangria with Shira's friend Hanna on 3rd Ave. I went home a little sad, boys what else?, and sang Dolly Parton all the way.

After the Jump is happening in exactly a week, which seems absolutely surreal. Most days, I work 12 hours on ATJ and to know that it will be over in a week is both scary and relieving. I am not sure that people realise how much effort it takes to put on one of these things, I certainly didn't know how much it would take before I began. At this point, I think I am looking forward to my Labor Day weekend away in Maine more than the festival, though I know it will be wonderful. I've been talking to the teacher whose program we are supporting and he has been so kind and thankful on the phone. It made my day the first time he called earlier this week and reminded me how worth the frustration and stress this all is.

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Sunday, August 05, 2007

Days Seven - Ten: Highland Camping Trip

July 22nd to the 25th

I was going to go to Paris over the weekend. That didn't work out so well. Instead, I went camping. Crawford's suggestion, clearly not mine.

On Saturday night, Javier, Crawford and I went through to Edinburgh to have dinner with his folks and ready his family's camper van for the next morning when friends Marc, Isobel and Paul were joining us for the trip.

I was so happy to go again to Crawford's parent's house and spend some more time with his family. His parents had white wine chilled for me when we arrived and dinner waiting. His mom made soup and shepard's pie. J'adore, it was amazing.

We three slept over in the cosy living room, Javier on the "soldier's bed" (a WWI relic and surprisingly comfortable) while Crawfy and I shared the pull out bed. He said I snored, I said his moaning all night was worse. Oh, now that sounds dirty.

Marc and Crawford know each other from the Glasgow, Paul is Marc's childhood best friend while Isobel is Marc's fiance whom he met while travelling in South America. Their relationship is so lovely, it made me want to dive into the middle of it. Example, one day during the trip, it was raining and Marc came back into the camper wet. Isabelle presented him with a cup of tea and he just hugged her and sighed, "Como te amo." It means, How I love you.

Our trip started off on the shores of Loch Ness where Paul fished unsuccessfully and we drank pints in the makeshift campsite pub while playing games of darts and pool. The next day we travelled north to Glen Affric, home of some of the oldest Scotch pines in the country. There we hiked through the glen, along the loch and while the rest of the group went up one of the hills, I strolled back to the camper, stopping along the way to drink from fresh springs and sit under sprawling rowan trees to read the latest Harry Potter. It was so perfect and so beautiful, I could hardly stand myself. On my way back to the camper, it began to rain and by the time I got there, it was pouring. I was pretty wet when I got inside but not as soaked as the rest of the gang as they trooped up half an hour later drenched.

We decided to camp that night along the shores of the loch. Not such a great idea. Being out there alone in the complete darkness was great. The midges that swarmed the camper though, not so great. In complete frustration, Crawford broke off the leg of the camper awning as the little buggers engulfed him.

Midges are a Scottish phenomenon. They swarm the west coast in the trillions every summer and make life darn near unbearable. Every Scot has a story of tourists heading to the west for holiday and then leaving after one day because of the little bastards. They are smaller than a fruit fly and will bite the shit out of you. Every morning, I would wake up with midgie bites all over my chest, but who could blame them?

For our last day, we made our way back south to the heart of the Highlands and the tallest mountain in Britain, Ben Nevis. I didn't have proper shoes to climb a mountain with. Thankfully, that was a good excuse. Whilst the others hoofed it up the mountain, Javi and I sat in the sun that finally shined after a week. I was reminded of an old married couple sitting on their porch as Javi and I lazed on our lawn chairs on the grass outside the camper. We made dinner for everybody while they were gone. Javi chopped, I stirred and something small was rekindled in my heart as we together decided against more squash and opted for another potato instead.

Paul and Crawford were the first to arrive back. They made the return trip in 3:45. It takes a normal person close to 8 hours, but those boys trekked up it in about three and literally ran down in 45 minutes. Isobel and Marc took a bit longer. It didn't help that Crawford and Paul left them behind early on and accidentally, took all their water with them.

Our last night together was spent sitting around the dinner table, eating our stew, munching on chocolate digestives and playing a rousingly long game of Trivial Pursuit. We called it a draw at 2am.

The last day we had a leisurely drive through Glencoe and took a group shot along the road. We dropped the camper in Edinburgh and said our goodbyes. Crawford's dad dropped Javi, Crawford and I off at the train station a couple of hours later. I was late for my train and ran to catch it. I hardly had time to say goodbye to my boys, which in the end, was just easier. I was on my way to St. Andrews...

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Saturday, August 04, 2007

Days Two - Six: Glasgow

After I was bundled into a cab Sunday morning, I hopped the train to Glasgow from Euston Station. I slept for a couple of hours and arrived groggy and nervous at Queen St. Central Station where Crawford and his new fiance Lucie picked me up. It had been nearly two years since I last saw Crawford and all I really wished for when we saw each other was that everything would be just the same as it used to be. Thankfully, there was nothing to worry about. Everything was as it should be. We drank tea and laughed and I shook my head smiling and said "it is still the same."

Lucky for Crawford, I like his new girl. Or lucky for me I suppose. I felt very anxious that somehow the same jealousy thing that happened with the last girl would occur again, but it was so preposterous to begin with that I think it was nearly impossible.

Visiting Glasgow made me so glad that I don't live there. How harsh! But honestly, it's true. Within the hour of me getting there I saw one drunk carried out of the train station, a girl on a bad hit of acid getting man-handled by her boyfriend to which the police showed up and an old drunk asking where the bookie was, to which the reply from a patron in the pub we were sitting at was: "It's 9pm on a Sunday mate!"

I arrived Sunday, and Tuesday Crawford and I drove through to Edinburgh to pick-up Javier from the airport. We stopped first at his parent's new house for dinner. Their new home is amazing. A stocky, gray stone Victorian structure built in 1860 with a fire place in every room and a big back garden with an apple tree. It's rooms are large and inviting, just like Crawford's family. Nearly the entire Spence family was there, including the never before met elder brother Michael (recently split up from his girlfriend, hello hello). Crawford's mom got me drunk and when we got to the airport, I stumbled in looking for Javi. He finally found me and had no baggage in tow because British Airways lost it for the 2nd week in a row (the week before going to New Zealand).

The three of us spent the rest of the week working, me on After the Jump and Crawford and Javi on research and attending a conference at which they presented a collaborative paper at the University of Glasgow. I helped Javi buy some new clothes, his suitcase took 5 days to get back to him, and explored the city. We rented Children of Men and ate haggis for dinner. Javi treated me to Subway and I showed him the Kelvingrove museum where we took pictures of art and drank lattes and cappuccinos in the cafe while planning the next time we would see each other.

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Wednesday, August 01, 2007

Day One: London

First off, I didn't go on holiday. I went on an expedition.

I flew out on Friday the 13th of July (I have a history of picking supposedly bad luck days to travel, like September 11th) and arrived in London on Saturday the 14th. Took the tube to Oxford Street from Heathrow and walked to Akshay's hotel, The Langham. It was so fancy that it made me feel like a dirt bag just sitting in the lobby. I woke him up with my phone call at 9am. He came down to the lobby half asleep to collect me and promptly went back to sleep once upstairs. After taking a shower, I climbed into bed with him and fell asleep almost immediately. We slept for three hours and then woke for lunch. Akshay's work friend Mike joined us and in addition to introducing them to the joys of Wagamama, I gave them a mini tour of the main sites.

First stop was Trafalger Square, then down Whitehall to Westminster Abbey.

Next, over Westminster Bridge to walk along Southwark. Mike insisted we stop in an arcade for some gaming. I sat and watched while the boys played bumper cars. I still hadn't taken money out from the bank and I hate a hand-out.

Along Southwark, on our way to the Tate Modern, was a Turkish fair. Mike bought a kebab and it came with a free Ayran. The boys hated the yogurt drink, so I sipped it while dreaming of sesame rings in Istanbul.

The point of walking along the south bank was to see the slides at the Tate Modern. Unfortunately, I was about 6 months too late. After that disappointment, we walked over the Millenium Bridge to St. Paul's and then down Fleet Street where we stopped in Cheshire Cheese- a pub from 1667. The original burnt down in the fire of 1666 or else it would be older. We stood in the basement room and drank pulled pints of delicious ale.

Back to Trafalger and over to SoHo for dinner at Mr. Jerk. Akshay and Mike had expense accounts and were kind enough to buy me all of my meals and drinks for the day. So instead of my normal travel meal of a scrap of bread and cheese, I had prawn curry and a large rum and coke for dinner. After drinks in the hotel, we taxied to Kensington where I thought we could go to Imperial's Student Union for drinks. Closed. As was all of my other old haunts in Kensington. We eventually found a place on Kensington Church street that was open for another hour before we were kicked out and sent back to the hotel where I hardly slept a wink...

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